新一代大學(xué)英語(yǔ)綜合教程1-英語(yǔ)課文翻譯

1、新一代大學(xué)英語(yǔ)綜合教程新一代大學(xué)英語(yǔ)綜合教程1課后翻譯課后翻譯UNIT12、Indeedwemightfeelasifwearesuddenlyawashinfriends.Yetrightbefeoureyeswerealsochangingthewayweconductrelationships.Facetofacechattingisgivingwaytotextingmessagingpeopleevenpreferthesee

2、lectronicexchangestofinstancesimplytalkingonaphone.SmallercirclesoffriendsarebeingpartiallyeclipsedbyFacebookacquaintancesroutinelynumberedinthehundreds.Athesesmallertrendsgrowingresearchsuggestswecouldbeenteringaperiodo

3、fcrisisftheentireconceptoffriendship.WhereisallthisleadingmoderndaysocietyPerhapstoadarkplaceonewhereelectronicstimulislowlyreplacethejoysofhumancontact.確實(shí)如此，我們似乎感到突然之間好友數(shù)量井噴。不過(guò)，我們眼前也正在改變?yōu)槿颂幨赖姆绞?。面?duì)面的聊天正在被短信取代；相比打個(gè)電話，人們甚至

4、更愿意使用這些電子交流方式。臉譜網(wǎng)上的熟人圈兒動(dòng)輒數(shù)百人，相比之下，現(xiàn)實(shí)生活中規(guī)模較小的朋友圈則顯得黯淡少光。在這些較細(xì)微的趨勢(shì)中，越來(lái)越多的研究表明友誼的整個(gè)概念正在遭受危機(jī)，而我們也許正在一步步地邁向這個(gè)危機(jī)時(shí)代。所有這一切要把現(xiàn)代社會(huì)引向何方？也許現(xiàn)代社會(huì)就此陷入黑暗深淵，在這個(gè)深淵里，人與人之間交往的樂(lè)趣慢慢地被電子誘惑所取代。8、Nosinglepersonisatfaultofcourse.Thepressuresonfri

5、endshiptodayarebroad.Theyarisefromthedemsofwksayageneralbusynessthatmeanswehavelessqualitytimefothers.Howmanyindividualswouldsaythatfriendshipisthemostimptantthingintheirlivesonlytomovethoussofmilesacrossthecontinenttota

6、keupabetterpaidjob當(dāng)然，這并不是某個(gè)人的錯(cuò)。如今，交友壓力來(lái)自方方面面。比如來(lái)自工作壓力，或是整天瞎忙，無(wú)法和他人享有高質(zhì)量的溝通時(shí)間。有人嘴上說(shuō)友誼是生命中最重要的東西，卻為了一份收入頗豐的工作遠(yuǎn)赴千里之外。這樣的人還少嗎？9、Ofcoursewelearnhowtomakefriends—not—inourmostfmativeyearsaschildren.Recentstudiesonchildhoodhowt

7、hecontemparylifeofthechildaffectsfriendshipsareilluminating.Againthegeneralmoodisoneofconcernacentralconclusionoftenreachedrelatestoalackofwhatiscalled“unstructuredtime.“當(dāng)然，我們是在性格成型的最重要的孩提時(shí)期學(xué)會(huì)如何結(jié)交朋友或是如何斷交。最近，關(guān)于兒童期和兒時(shí)生活對(duì)交

8、友的影響的研究很有啟發(fā)性。這些研究再一次關(guān)注了風(fēng)氣這個(gè)問(wèn)題，其主要結(jié)論都與孩子缺少“計(jì)劃外時(shí)間”有關(guān)。10、Structuredtimeresultsfromthewayanaveragedayisparceledupfourkids—timefschooltimefhomewktimefmusicpracticeeventimefplay.Yettoooftentodaynoperiodisleftunstructured.After

9、allwhothesedaysletshischildjustweroffdownthestreetButthatispreciselythekindoffallowtimesovitalfdeeperfriendships.Itsthenthatwesimply“hangout“withnotasksnototheunfamiliarhisopennesstopeoplewhoweredifferentfromhim.Whenhere

10、turnedhomehumbledbyhisweekabroadtheexecutiveaskedhiscoachtoshadowhimfpartsofthedaySeveraltimesaweekindertocritiquehowhetreatedpeoplewithnewdifferentperspectives.Atthesametimeheconsciouslyusedonthejobinteractionsasopptuni

11、tiestopractice“hearing”ideasthatdifferedfromhis.Finallytheexecutivehadhimselfvideotapedinmeetingsaskedthosewhowkedfwithhimtocritiquehisabilitytoacknowledgeunderstthefeelingsofothers.Ittookseveralmonthsbuttheexecutive’sem

12、otionalintelligencedidultimatelyrisetheimprovementwasreflectedinhisoverallperfmanceonthejob.這位主管向私人教師尋求幫助，他回到工作崗位，通過(guò)實(shí)踐和別人的反饋來(lái)提高自己的同理心。首先，他到一個(gè)語(yǔ)言不通的國(guó)家去度假。在異國(guó)他鄉(xiāng)，他審視自己面對(duì)不熟悉事物的反應(yīng)以及對(duì)異族人群的開(kāi)放性。返回家鄉(xiāng)時(shí)，一周的國(guó)外生活已使他丟掉了所有的高傲，這位主管讓私人教師一

13、周跟蹤自己幾天，每天跟蹤自己幾個(gè)時(shí)段，以此評(píng)價(jià)自己對(duì)持新觀點(diǎn)或不同觀點(diǎn)人的態(tài)度。同時(shí)，他還有意識(shí)地利用工作現(xiàn)場(chǎng)與人交往的機(jī)會(huì)來(lái)實(shí)踐“傾聽(tīng)”異己觀點(diǎn)。最后，主管還讓人拍攝他開(kāi)會(huì)時(shí)的表現(xiàn)，讓下屬以及合作伙伴評(píng)價(jià)自己承認(rèn)并理解他人感情的能力。這個(gè)過(guò)程持續(xù)數(shù)月，但最終，主管的情商確實(shí)提高了，并在他的整體工作表現(xiàn)上體現(xiàn)了出來(lái)。8It’simptanttoemphasizethatbuildingone’semotionalintelligence

14、cannot–willnot–happenwithoutsinceredesireconcertedefft.Abriefseminarwon’thelpncanonebuyahowtomanual.Itismuchhardertolearntoempathize–tointernalizeempathyasanaturalresponsetopeople–thanitistobecomeadeptatregressionanalysi

15、s.Butitcanbedone.“Nothinggreatwaseverachievedwithoutenthusiasm”wroteRalphWaldoEmerson.Ifyourgoalistobecomearealleaderthesewdscanserveasaguidepostinyourefftstodevelophighemotionalintelligence.需要強(qiáng)調(diào)的是，沒(méi)有真誠(chéng)的愿望和竭盡全力的付出，培養(yǎng)情商是不

16、可能的，也不會(huì)有結(jié)果。一場(chǎng)簡(jiǎn)短的研討會(huì)起不了作用，實(shí)用操作手冊(cè)也無(wú)法買(mǎi)到。要使同理心內(nèi)化為對(duì)別人的一種自然反應(yīng)，才算是獲得了同理心，這比擅于回歸分析要難得多。但獲得同理心也是能做到的。拉爾夫沃爾多愛(ài)默生寫(xiě)道：“沒(méi)有熱情，就不可能取得任何偉大的業(yè)績(jī)?！比绻愕哪繕?biāo)是成為一位真正的領(lǐng)袖，這句話可以激勵(lì)你不斷努力，提高情商。UNIT32、Firstscienceispracticedbyspecialpeoplewithaspecificvi

17、ewofthewld.Scientiststrytobeobjectiveunsentimentalunemotional.Theydonotlettheirfeelingsgetinthewayoftheirobservationsofrealthingsfactsastheycallthem.Theyoftenwkinlabatiesinotherareaswheretheycancarefullycontrolwhattheyar