誰(shuí)解雇了誰(shuí)(凱蒂功課案例)

1、Cleanse325我討厭John，因?yàn)樗屛冶唤夤蚄atie：Okpleasures(pressures).WhatdidyouwriteOk.你寫(xiě)了什么？Awoman:IwroteI‘mangrywithjohnbecausehegotmefired.我寫(xiě)的是，我對(duì)john生氣，因?yàn)樗屛冶唤夤土?。Katie:sojohngotyoufiredisthattrue所以john解雇了你，那是真的嗎？Awoman:hefiredme.他

2、解雇了我。K:soheistheonethatactuallysaidyouarefired.所以他實(shí)際上對(duì)你說(shuō)——你被解雇了？A:no.不是。K:sojohngotyoufiredisthattrue所以john讓你被解雇了，這是這真的嗎？A:Ithinkso.我認(rèn)為是的。K:solet’sxxthanplatecomeoutwithinsideofyou.Youchooseansweryesno.johngotyoufired.讓我

3、們看看你內(nèi)在的答案。你選擇回答是或者不是。john讓你被解雇了？A:（打斷凱蒂）Idon’tknow.我不知道。K:Idontknow.Youarenotxxx.Seeifyoucandoanotheralittlesearchinthere.johngotyoufired.Isittrue我不知道。來(lái)看看你還能不能更深入的看看這個(gè)問(wèn)題。john讓你被解雇了，這是真的嗎？A:no不是。K:wheredidyougetthat你從哪里發(fā)現(xiàn)

4、這個(gè)不？A:Igotmefired.我讓我被解雇了。K:givemeanexample.告訴我一個(gè)例子。A:becauseIdidntrespecthim.因?yàn)槲也蛔鹬厮?。K:youdidntlisten.CanyoufindanotherexampleHowwereyoufiredyou你不聽(tīng)他的。你還能再找到一個(gè)例子嗎？你是如何地讓你被解雇了？A:en嗯K：youdidn’trespecthim.youdidn’tlistentoh

5、im.Youdidn’ttrusthim.Itisnotrightwrongyouknow.Wetrustpeoplewedon’t.你不尊重他。你不聽(tīng)他的。你不信任他。你知道，我們信任或者不信任別人，是與對(duì)錯(cuò)無(wú)關(guān)的。A:Ithinkitisrightnottrusthim.我認(rèn)為不信任他是對(duì)的。K:that’swhereImwithit.wedon’talwayskeepourjobswhenweareright.當(dāng)我們對(duì)的時(shí)候，不一

6、定總是能保住工作。Howdoyoureactwhenyouthinkthethoughthegotmefired相信這個(gè)念頭，他讓我被解雇了，你會(huì)有什么反應(yīng)？A:Ihavenofaithinmyself.我無(wú)法相信自己。K:whatelse還有嗎？A:Idon’ttakecareofmyself.Idon’ttakecareofmyfamily.我不照顧自己，也不照顧家庭。K:howdoesthatfeel那種感覺(jué)怎樣？A:Itfeel

7、shrible.感覺(jué)太可怕了。K:whatwouldyourlifebelikewithoutthethoughtjohngotmefired沒(méi)有這個(gè)念頭，你的生活是怎樣的？A:itwouldbemepowerful.Iwouldbemepowered.會(huì)更有力量。我會(huì)更有力量。K:whenpeoplewouldsaywhathappentoyourjobIdidn’ttrustmyboss.Ididn’tlistentohim.Idi